13 Causes Why star Tommy Dorfman reveals she’s engaged to a different girl… after she determined that ‘That is the yr that I’m gonna go on some dates with women’
- Tommy Dorfman, 30, introduced that she was engaged on Monday
- She revealed her fiancée is a ‘cis girl’
- She beforehand dated males, although she was drawn to ladies in highschool
- The actress got here out as a trans girl in 2021
- She revealed final yr that she was divorcing her husband Peter Zurkuhlen
Tommy Dorfman introduced Monday that she is engaged, although she shared few particulars about her new fiancée.
The 30-year-old 13 Causes Why star — who beforehand offered as a homosexual man earlier than popping out as a transgender girl — shared her information throughout an look on Rachel Bilson’s podcast Broad Concepts.
The actress revealed that her fiancée is a ‘cis girl,’ though she had beforehand dated males.
Placing a hoop on it: Tommy Dorfman, 30, revealed Monday that she had gotten engaged to a ‘cis girl’ whereas chatting with Rachel Bilson on her Broad Concepts podcast; seen in Could in Manhattan
Tommy stopped in need of revealing the id of her fiancée, although she did describe her as ‘only a homosexual lady.’
Again in April, she shared in a TikTok video documenting her fluid sexuality, during which she stated that she ‘went from being a straight boy to a homosexual boy to a non-binary particular person to a trans straight girl — I assumed — to I assume I’m a trans lesbian.’
Whereas talking with Rachel, Tommy admitted that she ‘knew I used to be all for ladies in a approach that I hadn’t actually been conscious of since highschool,’ through Simply Jared.
‘I had this unresolved, unexplored factor. I used to be like, “That is the yr that I’m gonna go on some dates with women and really feel that out once more, and never really feel ashamed about it.”‘
Time for a change: Tommy did not share her fiancée’s id, however referred to as her a ‘homosexual lady.’ She admitted to beginning relationship ladies once more after being drawn to males for years; pictured in April in New York Metropolis
Nonetheless, the Sharp Stick actress admitted she was afraid to be open about her attraction to ladies, as she had grow to be a ‘protected’ determine to lots of her ladies mates when she beforehand recognized as a homosexual man.
‘As a result of they considered me as a homosexual man, they had been like, “Oh, such as you’re the most secure particular person on this planet,”‘ she defined. ‘After which all of the sudden, I transition and I grow to be slightly bit extra threatening, in my head.’
Hanging up a relationship together with her fiancée was a giant step, as she was the primary girl Tommy had been with in a ‘very very long time,’ although she discovered the expertise to be ‘very affirming.’
‘It’s protected. Additionally not protected, and like being in love is so scary,’ she continued. ‘So uncomfortable, so painful. All of the common emotions of being in love which might be most likely the identical.’
New perceptions: She apprehensive she would appear ‘threatening’ to her ladies mates after she had beforehand recognized as a ‘protected’ homosexual man; seen with a hoop with a diamond and an emerald, together with a gold band, in Could
Flashy: In June, she was seen on the pink carpet on the Tribeca Movie Competition showing to put on solely the ring with a tear drop–formed diamond and an emerald subsequent to it; pictured June 13
Tommy did not make clear when she acquired married, however after beforehand protecting her left ring finger naked, she was seen in Could in New York Metropolis on the GLAAD Media Awards sporting what gave the impression to be a gold ring with a tear drop–formed diamond and an emerald subsequent to it, together with a separate smaller gold band.
In June, she was seen on the pink carpet on the Tribeca Movie Competition showing to put on solely the ring with stones.
Then, she was seen final month within the West Village whereas showing to put on only a gold band on her ring finger.
The actress beforehand married Peter Zurkuhlen in 2016, again when she publicly recognized as a person, after getting engaged the earlier yr.
Nonetheless, she revealed in 2021 that they had been divorcing.
Shifting on: The actress beforehand married Peter Zurkuhlen in 2016, again when she publicly recognized as a person, however she shared final yr that they had been divorcing; seen July 23 sporting a gold band on her ring finger