Mom shamed for wearing ‘indecent’ sundress to her son’s party

A mom who claims her outfit and physique ‘stole the highlight’ from her seven yr outdated son’s party has hit again at social media critics who’ve branded her ‘indecent’. Raquel Dicuru, 37, from Kent, England (pictured), was throwing a seventh party for her son final month when her sister-in-law filmed her lighting the candles on the birthday cake.

It wasn’t till she watched the lovable memento video again that she realized her belongings have been prominently featured within the purple flower sundress – proper in entrance of the young children. However the assistant skill marketing consultant could not resist sharing the clip on TikTok, jokingly captioning it: ‘Once you did not notice your … have been stealing the highlight at your son’s party till you noticed pics and vid later that night!’.

The mother-of-two says that the footage, which racked up a couple of million views, has provoked backlash from many viewers, with some claiming that Raquel was attempting to ‘discover a husband’ and branding her ‘indecent’. The sundress, which comes right down to the knees, does not look revealing and it was possible the angle of the video that put Raquel’s cleavage entrance and middle as she lit the candles.

In follow-up movies responding to snide feedback, Raquel instructed her critics to ‘get a life’ and posed up within the costume once more to push for a proof about why her outfit was ‘offensive’. She justified herself on TikTok, saying no person had observed something uncommon about her costume till she acquired video footage from the celebration later that evening.

‘My sister-in-law was the one who filmed the video,’ Raquel (pictured) defined. ‘She did not even discover till she despatched me the video and I stated, “Oh my god! My… are proper there”. Usually, I’d be simply adjusting my clothes on a regular basis. However that costume was fairly comfortable so I wasn’t. I feel it is principally right down to the angle of the video. She was filming from above and I used to be crouching down a bit bit. We have been all simply residing within the second and singing glad birthday to my son. So I simply thought it was humorous that we have been all unaware. She added: ‘I posted it on-line as a result of I believed it was humorous and acquired a shock once I noticed the response. A few of the individuals stated my caption was drawing consideration to my [assets]… However that is why it was humorous. It is like when individuals stroll out of a bathroom with paper hanging onto their shoe. Of all of the movies I’ve posted about litter choosing and eco-living – which I’d like to go viral – it was this that did.’

Though she was initially stunned by the feedback, Raquel strongly believes that she did nothing flawed by sporting the costume. She stated: ‘Deep down, the tough feedback did make me query what I put on. However then I believed “No, they’re those who’ve an issue with it”. It is humorous how persons are indignant at pores and skin… It was a sizzling day initially of June. I used to be sporting one thing snug for a picnic within the park.’ Regardless of the criticism, Raquel is set to not let the critics change her thoughts on what she wears. She stated: ‘This hasn’t put me off sporting the sundress. I am not indecent – I like to decorate good for the physique that I’ve. No one ought to be shaming me or anyone else for what we put on or what we wish to present. I am simply displaying a little bit of boob or a little bit of a leg. It is sizzling – I haven’t got to cowl up in order that different individuals might be snug.’

Many commenters did not maintain again of their critiques of Raquel’s celebration outfit. One wrote ‘The very fact you highlighted that is sick.’, while one other stated ‘Yeah proper, every part about you screams ‘Take a look at me’.’

One other questioned ‘Why would you even put on that to a child’s party?’, as a fellow critic who was male, remarked ‘Girls ALWAYS know after they’re hanging out.’

One TikTok consumer stated ‘Not good sufficient to put on one thing at a child’s celebration. She should be on the lookout for a single dad.’

Some commenters got here to Raquel’s protection on the problem, saying the costume was only a ‘fundamental sundress’ and ‘why is everybody hating?’. One wrote ‘Sorry, do not see something flawed. When you go to the seashore, you see much more flesh,’ while one other stated, ‘Why is everybody hating…it is only a fundamental sundress?’

One supportive commenter wrote ‘Wow, a few of these feedback. It is a humorous scenario, people. Life occurs and they’re simply… Snigger a bit.’